non-monogamy

Books
The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
Opening Up by Tristan Taormino
More Than Two by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert

Websites
Opening Up
Loving More 
Love Outside the Box

Local Resources
Bay Area Poly Networking
Bay Area Poly Collective


Anxiety management and meditation

Books
Why Zebras Don't Get Ulcers by Robert M. Sapolsky
Just One Thing by Rick Hanson, Ph.D.
How to Meditate by Pema Chodron

Websites
Headspace
This is Anxiety

Local Resources
San Francisco Zen Center
Dharma Punx
Spirit Rock